Psychological Flexibility:

Elite performance is about more than physical prowess and talent—it’s about how you adapt to change, respond to adversity, and align your actions with your goals.

At the heart of this adaptability lies psychological flexibility, the foundation of resilience and one of the most important mental skills in an athlete’s toolbox.

What Is Psychological Flexibility?

Psychological flexibility is the ability to adapt your thoughts, emotions, and actions to meet challenges while staying aligned with your values and goals. It’s about embracing discomfort, staying present, and committing to meaningful actions, even in the face of adversity and is the mechanism for mental toughness or mental agility!

Research consistently highlights psychological flexibility as a key predictor of mental performance and mental health (Kashdan & Rottenberg, 2012). Athletes who master this skill are better equipped to handle stress, recover from setbacks, and maintain consistency in their game.

The Core Skills of Psychological Flexibility

1. Being Open

• Recognize and accept your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors without judgment.

• Use strong emotional regulation to channel these experiences into purposeful action rather than resistance.

2. Being Aware

• Stay attuned to both your internal state (thoughts, emotions) and external environment (the game or situation).

• Maintain focus and connection to what matters in the moment.

3. Being Engaged

• Anchor your decision-making in your core values, especially during challenging moments.

• Lean on those values to guide you through tough situations and help you do hard things with intention.

If you think about this famous quote from Michael Jordan he is using all three core skills of psychological flexibility (Open / Aware / Engaged).

Why Psychological Flexibility Matters

1. Improves Mental Performance

In high-pressure environments, psychological flexibility helps athletes:

• Stay present and focus on what matters now.

• Adapt to challenges without being derailed by self-doubt or frustration.

• Recenter quickly after mistakes or setbacks.

2. Protects Mental Health

The demands of competitive sports can lead to anxiety, burnout, and emotional overwhelm. Psychological flexibility provides tools to:

• Accept difficult emotions rather than suppressing them.

• View challenges as opportunities for growth.

• Stay grounded in values, creating a sense of purpose and balance.

Actionable Tips to Embrace Psychological Flexibility

1. Practice Mindfulness Daily

Spend 5–10 minutes focusing on your breath or engaging in a simple activity like walking. Mindfulness reduces distractions and helps you stay present during competition.

2. Embrace Setbacks as Learning Opportunities

After a challenging game or practice, reflect on what you can learn. Ask yourself:

• What went well?

• What can I improve?

• What do I need to let go of?

3. Align with Your Values

Take time to identify your core values as an athlete. Are you driven by teamwork, persistence, or personal growth? Answer the question, “who are you and what do you stand for”? This questioning should help you understand your why, or your values.

Use these values to guide decisions in tough moments.

4. Use a Release-Reset-Refocus Routine

• Release: Let go of mistakes with a deep breath.

• Reset: Ground yourself by focusing on something physical (e.g., your stance, the ball).

• Refocus: Shift your attention to the next task, fully present in the moment.

5. Reframe Negative Thoughts

When self-doubt creeps in, practice defusion. For example, instead of thinking “I’m terrible at this,” reframe it as “I’m noticing the thought that I’m struggling, but it doesn’t define me.”

Summary

Psychological flexibility is not about avoiding difficulties or forcing positivity. It’s about learning to navigate challenges with resilience and purpose. Whether you’re striving for athletic excellence or balance in daily life, this skill can transform how you approach stress, setbacks, and success.

As Michael Jordan reminds us:
“I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

By embracing challenges and staying true to your values, you’ll unlock the potential to perform at your best while enjoying the process.

Key Take Aways

1. Psychological Flexibility Enhances Both Performance and Mental Health:
   It helps athletes adapt to challenges, stay present under pressure, and align their actions with their core values, leading to improved consistency, reduced stress, and greater resilience.

2. Practical Skills That Can Build Psychological Flexibility:
   Techniques such as mindfulness, reframing negative thoughts, embracing setbacks, and using routines like release-reset-refocus are effective ways to develop this vital skill.

3. Values Provide a Strong Anchor During Adversity:
   Grounding decisions and actions in personal values helps athletes maintain focus and composure, even in high-pressure situations.

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